Sidoqoft\u00eb, edhe t\u00eb urt\u00ebt kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb heshtur, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb kritikohen. Ne si qenie njer\u00ebzore kemi nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb pranuar dhe t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar, pik\u00ebrisht e kund\u00ebrta e asaj q\u00eb ndodh kur dikush \u201cnuk bie dakord\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne kemi krenarin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe kritikat na shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Sidoqoft\u00eb, ne duhet t\u00eb jemi gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm se kush na kritikon. N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person i motivuar nga injoranca, nuk ka arsye t\u00eb ndiheni t\u00eb l\u00ebnduar ose t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar. Jo t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebshillat vlejn\u00eb dhe jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit duan t\u00eb na ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb zhvillohemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Shpjegimi i injoranc\u00ebs:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb sqarojm\u00eb llojin e injoranc\u00ebs t\u00eb cil\u00ebs i referohemi. Nuk flasim p\u00ebr injoranc\u00ebn kulturore apo injoranc\u00ebn n\u00eb lloje t\u00eb caktuara t\u00eb dijes. Flasim p\u00ebr injoranc\u00ebn e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb dhembshuri, ndjeshm\u00ebri, kujdes, v\u00ebmendje. Njer\u00ebz q\u00eb gjykojn\u00eb ata p\u00ebrreth tyre n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb pozit\u00ebs sociale, ose p\u00ebrfitimet q\u00eb mund t\u2019i ofrojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Injoranca arrin kulmin kur ne jemi jotolerant\u00eb. Kur preferojm\u00eb t\u00eb hedhim posht\u00eb nj\u00eb ide apo nj\u00eb person, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7lirohemi nga paragjykimet dhe idet\u00eb tona p\u00ebr t\u2019u hapur ndaj pik\u00ebpamjeve t\u00eb reja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb me njer\u00ebz injorant\u00eb, n\u00eb pun\u00ebt tona, n\u00eb shkolla, n\u00eb universitete. Por situata b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e d\u00ebmshme kur ata jan\u00eb pran\u00eb nesh, ata jan\u00eb miq ose an\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb familjeve tona. P\u00ebr shkak se ata jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb i duam dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb vjen prej tyre na prek m\u00eb thell\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nd\u00ebrsa piqemi, megjithat\u00eb, m\u00ebsojm\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra nga njer\u00ebzit injorant\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. M\u00ebsojm\u00eb se n\u00eb \u00e7do moment kemi mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar dhe braktisur injoranc\u00ebn, dhe se kushdo q\u00eb nuk ndryshon \u00ebsht\u00eb sepse ai nuk d\u00ebshiron ta b\u00ebj\u00eb at\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, m\u00eb e mira q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i inorojm\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb p\u00ebrpara me dinjitet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb marrim nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb tjet\u00ebr?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe pse q\u00ebndrimi standard i njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb men\u00e7ur \u00ebsht\u00eb heshtja p\u00ebrball\u00eb injoranc\u00ebs, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e mundur. Ne mund t\u00eb hasim situata jasht\u00ebzakonisht toksike n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat jemi t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb mbrojm\u00eb veten. N\u00eb raste t\u00eb tilla, duhet t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb me seriozitet dhe besim, duke b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb q\u00eb kufijt\u00eb jan\u00eb tejkaluar dhe se nuk mund ta pranojm\u00eb m\u00eb at\u00eb sjellje. M\u00eb posht\u00eb jan\u00eb disa situata n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat duhet t\u00eb veproni me vendosm\u00ebri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur injoranca b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e madhe se respekti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur njer\u00ebzit injorant\u00eb fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb duan t\u00eb kontrollojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb. N\u00ebse kjo ndodh, \u00ebsht\u00eb e domosdoshme t\u00eb gjeni nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb hequr qafe negativitetin e tyre, sa m\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur disa njer\u00ebz n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb na posht\u00ebrojn\u00eb ose na v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb siklet p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne gjithmon\u00eb do t\u00eb gjejm\u00eb injoranc\u00eb rreth nesh. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore q\u00eb t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb me men\u00e7uri dhe t\u00eb zgjedhim gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb meritojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sidoqoft\u00eb, edhe t\u00eb urt\u00ebt kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb heshtur, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb kritikohen. Ne si qenie njer\u00ebzore kemi nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb pranuar dhe t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar, pik\u00ebrisht e kund\u00ebrta e asaj q\u00eb ndodh kur dikush \u201cnuk bie dakord\u201d. Ne kemi krenarin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe kritikat na shqet\u00ebsojn\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt. Sidoqoft\u00eb, ne duhet t\u00eb jemi gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm se …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12944,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/86DB38E5-69CD-460D-B91E-5649B62555AF.jpeg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12943"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12943"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12943\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12945,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12943\/revisions\/12945"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12944"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/voranews.al\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}